May 14, 2012

#IwillneverFORGET my run in with sexual harassment (The Haunted Hayride Sexual harassment incident - Part 2)

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#IwillneverFORGET my run in with sexual harassment - Part 1

I never thought we where an item in the first place...

This part of the story is embarrassing to talk about but will help me to feel much better once it is all written down.  Knowing deep down that Chuck was playing with me the entire time and given the fact that he never offered to come home with me also was an indication.  There was a few times that I did offer him to come home with me, once even mentioning to Chuck that my birthday was in a few days than saying "we all know what I want" with a smile on my face.  He never outright refused but did tell me to be careful what was said because if another employee overheard my comments, sexual harassment charges could be brought up and he did not want to go down that road with me.  When he said that never again was a comment made from me or him until that following October.

It felt really good when Chuck looked at me that way, even if it was just all a big game to him.  During the first few weeks of employment at FT the main attraction was his personality and sense of humor.  Believing that Chuck was actually a people person and understood, especially given that it appeared as if he was not born with a silver spoon in his mouth.  Hiring minorities, people with bad backgrounds and disabilities of course he understood.  Chuck did not go to a fancy college, receive a fancy degree and he started the business from the ground up so anybody would think he understood his employees and going to him with problems seemed like the sensible thing to do.

A few days after the Haunted Hayride, Chuck and Justin, his IT Technician, stood by the lockers during my afternoon break.  Chuck stood next to my locker, which was one of the bottom ones.  Usually during break I would go into my locker to get my wallet and purchase a coffee at a nearby Cafe'.  When going into the locker I would squat instead of bending, it is more lady like to squat down not to bend over with your derriere, sticking out.  Also, it is not good for the back to bend over in such a way.  For some unknown reason, on that particular day, without even doing so on purpose I had a dollar in my pocket and decided to get a candy bar out of the vending machine.  It took an entire week to realize what that situation was all about.

Halloween day Chuck brought his wife and kinds, he acted so weird, not in the, guilty of doing something he shouldn't have done.  Chuck was saying hello to me and smiling which was rare because at that time usually he ignored comments I made, as if nobody was standing there in front of him at all or looked at me as if a strange piece of crap was standing there.  Now thinking about it, the indication was that what was supposed to happen in his screwed up mind was that I was to run up to his wife that Halloween day, sobbing and acting like some crazed lunatic woman.  Than Chuck would have had his reason to discharge me for insubordination.  When that did not happen than the bad production reports had started being issued to me.
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